
Why I Pray
There I stood in the kitchen asking myself, “Why on earth do I pray?” The reason became so numerous, I put pen to paper to make a list.

Prayer Changes Things
“Does it matter if we pray?” That kind of question will silence you for a bit, especially if your prayers feel unanswered.

3 Keys to Being a Spiritual Influencer
You may not think of yourself as an influencer, but your people have a front row seat to the beautiful work of Jesus in your life

4 Reasons to Keep Sharing Jesus—Especially When the World Feels Upside Down
Encouraging and serving others is challenging while navigating through hard times. Here are 4 reasons to keep sharing Jesus, especially when the world feels upside down.

5 Scriptures for When You’re in the Midst of a Storm
Here are 5 verses you can pray when life is hard

Almost Home
I believe there is the same longing for something more planted deep within each of us, knowing this isn’t our home.

How to Compare Bibles When You Are Looking for the Right One
How to compare Bible versions and types to help decide which Bible is right for you.

How to Choose the Right Bible
Whether you are a brand new christian or just find yourself looking for a new Bible, this guide will help you find the right Bible for you.

Grief: How Jesus Prepared the Disciples
There they sit, in silence and grief. Their friend is gone. They feel the loss. The emptiness. The heaviness of the…previous day.
And the one person who can make it all better…Gone.
There is silence…just a gaping hole in their heart – and deafening silence…

Grief: It Happens When You Least Expect It
Grief isn’t a one time event. Yes, it hangs on tight in the early days, but slowly loosens it grip over time, while never truly letting go. Over the years something will trigger its grip to tighten and the tears flow again.

Embrace Caring for Ourselves So We Can Embrace Caring for Others
As Christ lives in us and guides us to serve others, we must be healthy in all facets of our lives – spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally, and yes, even financially – ready in whatever way He calls us to serve.

Opening Our Homes Begins With Opening Our Hearts
If we will allow Him to fill the spaces of doubt and insecurity we feel over our perceived shortcomings of our home, we can throw open wide the doors, invite others in, and simple let Jesus use our home as a vessel to love others.

When You Hide Your Heart, Jesus Can’t Come In
Just like I had done with all the clutter in my home, I had taken emotional junk – hurts, struggles, doubts, and fears – and crammed it into hiding places within my heart and closed it off so others wouldn’t see my messy struggles. Here’s the hard truth: when I shut the door to…

You Don’t Have To Do It All
We can spend too much time and energy doing some very good things, but if it is not what God has called us to, we are not being obedient.

The Power of Unconditional Love
It was my focus on Jesus that kept me from lashing out and doing even more damage in the wake of the hurt and betrayal I felt.

Love Protects: Choosing Wisely When It Isn’t Easy
As Christ’s followers, it is our job to diligently protect others. It’s what love does. There are times when protecting someone is easy, but then there are times when protecting another stretches us.

Covered in Love
When we fail to love as God does, we create controversy, but when we let His love shine through us, we promote peace, we bring a little of our hoped-for heaven to earth.

Believing God is Love
We must come to know AND believe the love that God has for us and we must trust the goodness of His love.

Intentional Christmas
Oh come, let us worship and bow down; let us kneel before the LORD, our Maker! Psalm 95:6 ESV by Stephanie K Adams It seems each year the holiday season begins earlier than the year before and it gets more stressful as the demands to pull off a Pinterest-perfect event of epic portions weighs heavily on the…

SPIRITUAL CARE – THE FOUNDATION OF SELF-CARE
Feeding and nurturing our spirit is the foundation to overall health. And true refreshing comes from time spent alone – with God.

Intentional Self-Care – Taking Care of Our Bodies
We cannot continue at a frantic pace without stopping to take time to refill and refuel.

Intentional Self-Care – The Gift of Quiet Time
by Gwen Williams Contributing Writer Intentional prayer and listening prayer can happen successfully when you practice embracing the gift of quiet time. We know that Jesus went up into the mountains away from the people in order to hear the voice of God. We also know that if we rush around and pack our…

Intentional Prayer – Private Conversations with God
God longs to fellowship with us and He wants to be an important part of our every day. Being intentional in our conversations with Him, not only gives Him joy, but gives us so much more.

Intentional Giving – Are You Robbing God?
We can stop robbing God. Don’t believe me? Then test God’s generosity and start giving. Start small and watch how He provides

Intentionally Believing God’s Promises and Character
We can find strength and wisdom to survive and even thrive by focusing on Who God is and the many promises He has given to us

He Loved To The End
Jesus humbled Himself in front of each one of the disciples knowing they would scatter and abandon Him during His last hours. He bowed Himself low, took on the role of a servant and loved them to the end.

Giving God Your Future
Admittedly, it is hard to trust God with our future. We know He has good plans for us (Jeremiah 29:11), but when times get tough our hearts can struggle to hold on to faith.

3 Ways to Slow the Christmas Rush and Focus on Jesus
In all of the busyness and hurry, we can get overwhelmed with the ‘doing’ and forget about just ‘being’.
How can we slow our pace and become more intentional and focused on the birth of Jesus—Emmanuel, God with us—the newborn King?

Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving: What our thoughts focus on impacts our perspective, our feelings, and our responses to everything we encounter

His Mercies are New Every Morning
We can walk into a new morning with the comfort in knowing that God has wiped the slate clean

The Silent Sacrifice of a Military Family
Our ‘thank you’ will never fill the void, but maybe it will reach beyond the silence and let them know we see their sacrifice.

Perfect Was Never God’s Plan For Us
On this particular day when I reacted to my son’s meltdown by barking orders at him and demanding he pull himself together I expected shame and regret to be ushered in, but as I sat quietly before the Lord I felt Him ministering to my soul.

Grace Broke Mom: Postpartum Begins
Baby Grace was born just a couple of weeks after I wept on my bathroom floor as I realized the heartbreaking truth I had exchanged for lies.

Grace Broke Mom
I am not naturally gifted at “mom-ing”. I come with a heap of baggage & insecurities. As I lived broken, God’s undeserving grace broke me again.

BLOOM – Together Is Better
A gloriously diverse and beautiful group of women sharing their unique gifts and talents, compliment and contrast each other in a way that brings beauty to the group as a whole

BLOOM – Be Your Own Beautiful Bloom
We were simply created to serve specific people or situations wherever God plants us in order to spread the seeds of faith

BLOOM – Where He Plants You
BLOOM – Where He Plants You by Liz Giertz, Contributing Writer I recently planted what I thought were Impatiens in some pots on my front porch. I grew up with these flowers around my house and knew they would bloom in shady areas. But as I was freeing the last seedling from it’s carrier…

BLOOM – Proper Pruning Produces Bountiful Blooming
Pruning things from our lives ensures we have the energy to accomplish God’s calling

BLOOM – For a Season and Rest For a Reason
Seasons of Rest serve a great purpose. It us the opportunity to replenish our strength through the Word and prayer

BLOOM – In God’s Timing
God has prepared good works for each of us to walk in but only He knows when the time is right.

BLOOM – Introduction
Let’s nourish our souls with the Word of God, and grow our faith so we can BLOOM and become the masterpiece God created us to be!

Taming The Inner Mean Girl
It’s time we shed the ‘mean girl’ mentality and become real women developing relationships based on encouragement, accountability to God’s word, and love for each other.

5 Practical Strategies to Embrace a Season Waiting
Has God planted a dream in your heart?
A deep-seeded desire that you just can’t seem to shake.
Have you been waiting for what feels like an eternity for your desire to take root? For sprouts to emerge proving progress? For it to finally bear fruit?

Hidden Scars of Life
For many of us the hidden scars of life pierce our heart leaving it to either harden or heal, but either way they will change us.

Dare to Compare?
When we compare ourselves to others, we are taking our eyes off of God and putting them on man. Let’s stop comparing ourselves to others. Let us have a complete and biblical understanding of our value in Christ.

Book Review: “And It Was Beautiful” by Kara Tippetts
Through Kara’s own words, you will experience joy through the small moments of life as she shares how to live fully, love big, and die well. And, you will discover Jesus in mundane moments of a life lived beautifully.

Grace Overflowing – 1 Timothy 1:14
Grace. Overflowing.
A sinner, undeserving of Christ’s love. Yet, His Grace overflows, spilling into every hidden, shameful corner of the soul. Bringing Faith and Love to the unloveable, unbelieving, and broken.
Grace. Overflowing. For Me.

A Letter to My Enemy | You Can’t Kill Me
I re-read the letter. It has become a ritual. A letter penned through the cries of praise. Every year, at the same time – February – the date of my cancer diagnosis. I re-read the letter to remember. Remember the miracle God did through a battle for my life, and my soul. I take just a moment…

A Glance Back | What These Scars Mean to Me
There are certain life moments etched within us which require us to glance back through time and remember. To be reminded how far we have traveled through the struggles and trials with God faithfully by our side.

A Forgiving Generation
I want my sons to be a part of a forgiving generation; to search after God with all their heart, soul, and mind. If they can learn how to forgive as children, it will be easier forgiving as adults.

5 Ways to Focus on Spiritual Health
Most of us don’t think about making a plan for our spiritual growth, but just as we would make a workout plan, a healthy meal plan, or a to-do list of projects to complete, we should also make a strategy for our spiritual health.

A Conversation with Wendy Blight – Part 2
To celebrate today’s release of her new Bible Study, “I Know His Name, I’d love to share with you A Conversation with Wendy Blight about her passion for Bible Study.

Praying to God Our Promise-Keeper
Without prayer, we will never get to know the promise-keeping side of God. In order to know our Promise-Keeper, we’ve got to interact with Him. Pray to Him. And more than just pray, pray His promises … His Word … back to Him.

A Conversation with Wendy Blight – Part 1
My friend, Wendy Blight, is releasing a new Bible Study, I Know His Name: Discovering Power in the Names of God. Wendy teaches how the very names of God reveal His character and heart. I’d love to share with you part one of “A Conversation with Wendy Blight” about Writing Books and Bible Studies

Before You Start – 4 Ways to Prepare for Studying the Bible
Whether you are new to studying the Bible or have been reading it for years, here are 4 ways to prepare before you start.

Failing to Transform Will Cause Us to Conform – Romans 12:2
Now more than ever Christians must know what the Word of God says. We won’t learn what He says through browsing social media and letting someone else do our Bible studying for us, regurgitating their version of the Word (and, yes, that even includes this blog and all of the writers here at Real…

Moment of Suffering – Eternity of Glory – 1 Peter 5:10
Although our struggles in America, as real and as important as they are, can in no way compare to the suffering of Christians around the world, all of us can find comfort in the Word of God given through Peter in this letter.

A Living Hope – 1 Peter 1:3
God is worthy of our worship because He is our LIVING HOPE – alive and actively participating in bringing help into desperate situations.

Amazing Love – Ezra 9:9
God could have given up on us, turned His back and walked away. But instead He gave; gave all He had to give. He risked it all on the Cross in the hope that one day we would say “Yes” to Him.

A Renewed Portion – 2 Corinthians 4:16
Each day is unique, with it’s own rare challenges, and He gives us the portion we need for our assigned undertaking for each specific day.

Nothing New – Ecclesiastes 1:9
God is the same today as He has always been. His promises do not change. If His Word has promised something, then it is still a promise to day.

Satisfy the Weary Soul – Jeremiah 31:25
Continually dwelling in His Word and presence will help us prevent being depleted and working in our own strength.

New Year | New Look | New Name | Exciting Opportunities
Gathering a community of women to seek God and His Word
New year, New Look, New Opportunities for Bible Study

Hope Came Wrapped in Swaddling Clothes
Hope—God’s greatest gift—came to us wrapped in a simple baby blanket, full of joy, life, and love.

The Empty Seat at the Table
The loss of a parent, grandparent, spouse, sibling, niece or nephew, in-law, friend or child creates a hole begging to be filled and a seat at the table that remains empty.
What do you say on that day when hearts are broken and feelings are frayed? I learned three things that matter.

Accepted
My family had no way of knowing or understanding the raging disconnect inside my heart. I wanted so badly to fit in, to find a place that acknowledged my differences, and still welcomed me in.

When Christmas is Heartbreaking
She would have been fifteen.
For some reason I just assume that I only make girls.
She would have been fifteen.
For some reason I just assume that I only make girls. Being a self-professed girly girl, I soak in all the sugar and spice. Fairy tales and make believe, chasing after dreams like clouds thinking if…

Cease Striving
It’s so easy to be consumed by the demands this world urges me to grab on to relating to this blessed season, which has been hijacked by the compulsion to prove something; that I’ve hosted the best parties, prepared the yummiest food, purchased the greatest gifts, strung up the most beautiful decorations, found the ugliest…

Hope Is What Binds Us Together
Centuries of believers of all ages, languages, cultures, economic groups, and more have been united in a common hope that binds us all together.

An Anchor For My Soul
I am not responsible for holding my life together.
“We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure” Hebrews 6:19

Hope in A Future Plan
Afraid to hope in the promise that God has a plan and a future for you? Struggling with relationships in your life? Sin, pain, and hurt familiar companions? Life can be different.

Hope: An Absolute Necessity
Something beautiful happens when we are 100% empty….and we allow God to take over.

The Gift of Hope
What a wonderful gift God has given us in hope!
A strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls, to hold us firmly in place even in the midst of life’s storms.

Hope Is Eternal
the next time your find your hope broken or disappointed, remember to tap into the one who is eternal hope. The only one who will never disappoint. The only one who can meet all your needs – Jesus.
Hope Is Always Fulfilled By God
Our hope can stand on the fact that He sends His word out and it does not return void, it accomplishes what it set out to do.

Hope Is Contagious
Hope makes people wonder. Wonder about you. Wonder about your situation. Wonder why you are they way you are. Wonder about your hope.

Hope Is Persevering
That night was probably anything but silent, because pain cries out. Suffering is rarely silent.

Hope Is Risky – You Can Fall On Me
The Christmas miracle recorded in scripture began with a normal, ordinary man saying yes to an uncertain future.
That same God calls to His children today from the pages of His Word, and sometimes it feels uncertain, improbable, unlikely.
Obedience may look like risk, but it’s actually the safest place we can be.

Hope Is: Expecting The Best Is Yet To Come
If you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed or discouraged by your circumstances this season, rejoice in knowing that the best is yet to come.
Hope is knowing that what we face today – joy or angst – will pale in comparison with the glory of God’s eternal best for us in His Kingdom.

Belief Makes Your Impossibles Possible
What did it take for Hannah and Mary to believe anything was possible with God? What can we learn from them in this season of hope?

Hope In Jesus
Hope can be an amazing feeling of excitement for what is to come. But do we really understand what hope means from a biblical perspective? Real Hope should always be found in Jesus.

Reclaiming Unity In The Body of Christ
Church hurt: a term use to describe hurt caused by other Christians. Where there is church hurt, there you will find the enemy. Sitting slyly in the corner, rubbing his hands together in delight with a glint of evil pleasure in his eyes relishing in the fact that God’s children are fighting…each other…and not him!

Fervent – Strategy #10: Your Relationships
”If I were your enemy, I’d work to create division between you and other Christians, between groups of Christians, anyone with the potential for uniting in battle against me and my plans.” Priscilla Shirer, Fervent

Fervent – Strategy #9: Your Hurts
”If I were your enemy, I’d use every opportunity to bring old wounds to mind, as well as the people, events, and circumstances that caused them. I’d try to ensure that your heart was hardened with anger and bitterness. Shackled through unforgiveness.” —Priscilla Shirer, Fervent

Revealing Your True Identity
God’s Word is full of identity-affirming verses that will help keep our focus on who we truly are created to be. If we were aware of our “authentic identity”, we would understand the power of God within us.

Fervent – Strategy #8: Your Pressures
”If I were your enemy, I’d make everything seem urgent, as if it’s all yours to handle. I’d bog down your calendar with so many expectations you couldn’t tell the difference between what’s important and what’s not. Going and doing, guilty for ever saying no, trying to control it all, but just being controlled by…

Fervent – Strategy #7: Your Purity
“If I were your enemy I’d wear you down. Because if I can’t separate you from God forever,
I can at least set you at odds with Him for the time being.” Priscilla Shirer, Fervent

Redirect The Focus Of Your Prayer
If the enemy can misdirect our focus onto the people or circumstances around us as the source of our struggle, rather than clearly identifying him as the source of our problems, he can keep us distracted from our goals and purpose by keeping us fighting against them rather than against him.

Recapture Your Passion for Prayer
Passion combined with fervent prayer is an explosive weapon against the enemy. That’s why he wants to dull your desire. He knows if he can steal that fire inside you, you will be an easier target for discouragement. If he can get you so discouraged you stop praying, you become ineffective.

Fervent – Strategy #6: Your Fears
“The only thing keeping me from receiving everything God wants to give me is the fear tactic the enemy is using against me.” -Priscilla Shirer, Fervent

Fervent – Strategy #5: Your Past
“If I were your enemy, I’d constantly remind you of your past mistakes and poor choices…I’d work to convince you…that your God may be able to forgive some people for some thing, but not you—not for this” Priscilla Shirer, Fervent

Fervent – Strategy #4: Family
“I urge you, for the sake of your family, take the fight into your prayer room rather than your living room…Get ready to go to war for your family. And get ready to see some changes you’ve never seen happen before.” Priscilla Shirer, Fervent

Fervent – Strategy #3: Identity
“Fervent prayer keeps your identity in focus…that’s why if I were your enemy, I’d magnify your insecurities.” Priscilla Shirer, Fervent

Fervent – Strategy #2: Focus
“Fervent prayer relies on focus…If I were your enemy, I’d disguise myself and manipulate your perspectives so that you’d focus on the wrong culprit.” Priscilla Shirer, Ferventv

Fervent – Strategy #1: Passion
“Passion is the fuel in the engine of your purpose…That’s why if I were your enemy,
I’d steal your passion.” Priscilla Shirer, Fervent